Some relationships are not made in heaven and certainly not meant to last "till death do us apart" . If you think you are in such a relationship, it might be better to pull the plug now rather than regretting it later. Of course, like most things in life, it is easier said than done - there are several reasons why people stick on in impossible relationships, perhaps hoping for a miracle that would make things better
...This was helpful. Thank you.
Wow. This was a breath of fresh air. I like how compassionately and non judgementally it\'s written. It helped me understand why we tend to hold on even though it\'s not serving us good or it\'s deteriorating. I think it takes courage to really allow onself to write down and see things realistically rather than trying to rescue Or be a good parent Like partner. - Kavya Bose
A great read capturing the different conundrums of anyone going through confusion in a relationship. It was great to see someone addressing (and not judge) why people stay in such situation and yet offer practical sound advice on steps to take.
Are breakups applicable only for husband and wife OR a man and woman in love? Is it ok for parents to breakup especially when the children are still minor?
it is very important for people to realize the difference between a toxic and healthy relationship. unfortunately, due to TV and movies, people have the wrong idea about love and many times end up in the wrong situation.
Its not easy to call off relationship , specially when our mind, body ,and soul is engaged with that person , It is easy to say that I can face world alone, but practically we need someone to take care, to guide, to mentor for whole life.
Some times , we have to face the issues.................. even no mistake is from us.............
One more time means how many times exactly? People has tendency to keep trying and in this process life becomes more miserable
Keep calm and hold on to your love. Don't initiate a break-up
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Its not that easy to call off a relationship, I knw C wnt turn back 2 me again, but I cdnt call it off. D times n hr memories r killing me. Still waiting for her more than a year. Days kept passing by...........Loneliness stabs me evry mmt.....
Unable to decide whether to hold on and wait for him, or to let go and face the world alone... both are equally tough..
I completely go with teh article, coz, if you love yourself nad the people who live and love you than, one prson leaving, will make no difference, love- always makes you happy and give you a feeling of completeness. If you not satisfied...baby just move on :) you will, surely get teh ebst man in your life. Trust your creator.
what if the relationship is complicated in a completely different way
Its better to stay away from such a partner, But her memories are killing me.
But if the relationship makes you weak,negative and affecting your mood n performance in every other sphere of life then its better to face the world alone.
exactly.. deciding to give a one more chance or move away.. is really a tough task..
Very true... thinking of being alone makes me cry..
This article correctly mentions the reasons not to end the relationship. Being alone and facing the world is the most scary thought one can have.
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